barbara_hambly ([info]barbara_hambly) wrote,
@ 2008-04-19 11:06:00
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Yet another URI...
 I must say, after getting six and seven colds per year for the past eighteen years, I'm getting very tired of this.

As if in compensation, this is the week all the roses came into Spring Flush: beautiful. There's an arbor in my back yard and the blood-crimson climbers are out, and if the morning happens to be warm, the smell is enchanting. (I haven't lost my sense of smell; it just feels like my sinuses and bronchial passageways have been rinsed out with lye).

Cold or no cold, I will get to Passover Dinner tonight at a friend's. Though not Jewish, I've attended Passover regularly for over twenty years: it's good to have friends. I think the first or second Passover dinner I ever went to was given by a man I was seriously involved with, and included his parents, neither of whom would have approved of their First Born Son dating a shiksa, had they known he was doing so. ("We're just good friends..."). It was... odd. Those I now attend (at which my fellow guests are probably 75% Gentile) are much more laid-back. Pass the Maneschewiz.

The host household includes Levi The Too-Much-Coffee-Dog, a dobie-airedale mix whom my friends adopted after someone threw him out of a pickup in Griffith Park. When my friend's adopted (sort-of) brother was in beautician school, he'd practice on Levi: sometimes dyed his mustache blue (of course, Terry would dye his own mustache blue as well), sometimes gave him pink hair-extensions... it was all fine with Levi. He's been taught not to go after the hors d'oevres on the low tables, which is great. I anticipate a pleasant evening.



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Roses and Passover
[info]ro_anshi
2008-04-19 11:14 pm UTC (link)
this is the week all the roses came into Spring Flush

I mentioned this to you a couple months ago: now that the roses are blooming, may I bring my resin kids over for a photoshoot? (Predicated, of course, on Resin Kid #2 actually ARRIVING before the roses fade....)

I will get to Passover Dinner tonight at a friend's.

I have only ever been to one Passover Dinner, and it brought tears to my eyes when my wacky fangirl friend (and not the one you're probably thinking of right now) sang the blessing. Enjoy tonight's celebration, despite your cold, and give my best to your hosts (and Levi).

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Re: Roses and Passover
[info]barbara_hambly
2008-04-19 11:45 pm UTC (link)
Ro,
I would be absolutely delighted if you'd bring the ResinBabies over for a shoot. Since I assume you'll let me know when Jessica finally gets her rosy little ass to this country, we can work out something then.
I was recently enchanted and intrigued by the bentolunch community on LJ - which I linked into through somebody else's post. How do I find my way there again?
I realize I've been taking the equivalent of bento lunches to work for two years now, but am idiotically entranced by the idea of making organized box lunches of the kind portrayed (not just stuffing veggies, rice, and bird-fragments into zip-lock bags as I've been doing). (One can get bento boxes at the Mitsuwa Market near me, with or without Hello Kitty on the lids).

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Re: Rosy asses and bento
[info]ro_anshi
2008-04-19 11:59 pm UTC (link)
You can try this comm for bento:

http://community.livejournal.com/bentolunch/

I found it on a general Interests search, don't know if it's the one you saw, but it does sound like it might be, plus it's fairly active. (I also have someone on my flist - [info]telophase, who was the artist on the English-language manga I gave you for Christmas - who packs her own bento, and I'll watch her for possible other-bento-comm links.)

Angelo says to tell you that he agrees with your comment about Jessica's rosy little ass. Soon, we hope. ::sigh::

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Re: Rosy asses and bento
[info]barbara_hambly
2008-04-20 02:51 pm UTC (link)
That is indeed the area that I was looking for: many thanks. I will start exerimenting with rice-balls this week. Maybe I just enjoy looking at the pictures - pornography for dieters, as a mutual friend used to refer to it - still, it's something I've been doing in the crude, zip-lock version for years: that is, a non-sandwich brown-bag lunch.

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[info]dracschick
2008-04-20 01:30 am UTC (link)
sorry to hear you're feeling sick.

Hope you feel better!

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[info]coerdelion
2008-04-20 09:54 pm UTC (link)
Sorry to hear you're not feeling well. If I might be so bold as to suggest zinc (as well as Vit C, which you no doubt take already). Helps the immune system and if you're partial to pumpkin seeds, they're a very good source of it. I have a fab recipe for a pumpkin seed and sesame paste/spread that you would swear was peanut butter (if it wasn't green! Lol) that is excellent for keeping viruses at bay ...

I see you're all friends here and do hope you don't feel I'm butting in - was so glad to find this blog since I've been reading your books for years, Barbara, but never expected to actually have any kind of contact with the actual writer (gush - sorry)

Time to go ... ;)

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[info]barbara_hambly
2008-04-20 10:46 pm UTC (link)
Actually, I only know about three people from Real Life (that I know of); the rest are all people who friended me on LJ, whom I've never seen in person.
I tend to be leery of pumpkin-seed or any sort of seed- or nut-butter, because I gain weight extremely easily and my health is so inconsistent that it's almost impossible for me to take it off, once gained. I do indeed take Vitamin C and other vitamins.

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[info]coerdelion
2008-04-20 11:21 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for your reply - consider yourself befriended :)

We have that in common - the weight gain, that is. Oh, well, zinc is also available in pill form from stores. It can help, particularly if you avoid nuts and seeds (if you avoid them as well as the butters), which is where it occurs naturally.

The old Scottish stanby is a hot toddy - unless you avoid honey, lemon, hot water and a dram of whiskey (that would be a medicinal measure of Scotch whiskey, not Irish or American), too. Lol!

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URI, Roses, Bento, Levi
[info]ankhorite
2008-04-21 10:40 am UTC (link)

URI: Total sympathy.

Roses: Total envy. Here in Virginia, mine grow - briefly - only to be eaten by Japanese beetles. I can keep potted roses alive with heavy doses of serious pesticides, but the climbers I'd dreamed of to soften a 10' fence (that's tall, not long) remain a dream.

Bento. Eh. I've got several friends into this right now, but my dearest [info]savant_da_rat went another direction, buying 500 of those inelegant tubs you get from Chinese restaurants and cooking a week or two worth of work lunches on a Sunday, then freezing them until needed. Not artistic, but inexpensive and satisfying, and since we re-use them, those 500 should last us a lifetime.

Levi! I love the idea if the dog doesn't mind. Have you seen these? Click for more:

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[info]handworn
2008-04-21 03:40 pm UTC (link)
What happened 18 years ago to cause the colds to ensue?

I like the story of Levi The Too-Much-Coffee-Dog and his blue moustache, though it makes me think, "California..."

I never heard of bento before. You learn something new every day.

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[info]barbara_hambly
2008-04-21 03:51 pm UTC (link)
Eighteen years ago I went on a commercial weight-loss program at the strong recommendation of my doctor. I lost ninety pounds and apparantly my immune system as well. The entire eighteen months I was on the program, I was sick: cold symptoms, flu symptoms, fatigue. Turned out, it was a buy-our-meals program, and I didn't know I was allergic to several of the food-groups they relied on (not swell-up-and-die allergies, but feel-crappy-all-the-time allergies). For the first seven years after touchdown at my goal weight, I was literally constantly fatigued, and got one cold after another; the colds lasted months.
Since I work at home, I could work around this, and still do.
Now, colds will sometimes (though not always) trigger spells of fatigue, and I pick up colds easily. Travel usually means being sick afterward for a week or two.
When my husband died I put on about thirty pounds of the ninety I lost ("grief-bacon," it is inelegantly referred to in German), but sixty has stayed off due to daily vigilance. I take vitamins and regular moderate exercise, and eat as healthily as I can. But, I'm really tired of getting colds.

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[info]handworn
2008-04-21 08:43 pm UTC (link)
Reading that, my hand involuntarily clamped over my mouth in horror and sympathy. That's terrible! I wish we knew enough about the immune system to be able to deal with things like that; the related autoimmune diseases are some of the worst, too.

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Colds and immune system & allergies...oh my!
[info]orfhlaith
2008-04-23 03:32 am UTC (link)
I can relate to being allergic to things...I have so many it's easier to list what I'm NOT allergic to. Many of them are related to chemotherapy, so I guess I'll keep them. :)

I'll have to refresh my memory about other herbal/mineral supplements that help bolster the immune system, but zinc is a very good one for it.

Something I've found very helpful for allergies and colds is a plain old fashioned nasal rinse. It tastes vile, is a bit messy and sort of a pain in the neck, but it relieves the scorched by lye feeling as well as reducing the goop that builds up because of the allergies. You can pick up a starter kit for about $10 at Walgreen's.

Feel better soon!

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